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Abraham HicksMar 12, 2026·9 min

The Emotional Guidance Scale: Your Internal GPS, Fully Decoded

Twenty-two emotions, one ladder, one rule: only reach for the next rung. Here’s why Abraham’s scale is the most underused tool in modern self-help.

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by Piyush Mahajan

Most people know Abraham Hicks for the Vortex. Fewer know the actual map Abraham hands you to get there: a 22-rung ladder of emotions, from despair at the bottom to joy at the top. Once you can read this ladder, every bad mood becomes a coordinate instead of a problem.

The Scale, Top to Bottom

  1. 1
    Joy / Knowledge / Empowerment / Freedom / Love / Appreciation
  2. 2
    Passion
  3. 3
    Enthusiasm / Eagerness / Happiness
  4. 4
    Positive Expectation / Belief
  5. 5
    Optimism
  6. 6
    Hopefulness
  7. 7
    Contentment
  8. 8
    Boredom
  9. 9
    Pessimism
  10. 10
    Frustration / Irritation / Impatience
  11. 11
    Overwhelm
  12. 12
    Disappointment
  13. 13
    Doubt
  14. 14
    Worry
  15. 15
    Blame
  16. 16
    Discouragement
  17. 17
    Anger
  18. 18
    Revenge
  19. 19
    Hatred / Rage
  20. 20
    Jealousy
  21. 21
    Insecurity / Guilt / Unworthiness
  22. 22
    Fear / Grief / Depression / Despair / Powerlessness

The One Rule That Changes Everything

You can only reach one rung at a time. This sounds gentle. It is ruthless.

If you’re at rung 22 (despair), rung 1 (joy) is not available. Not today. Maybe not this month. What is available is rung 21 (unworthiness), then 20 (jealousy), then 19 (hatred). If this list horrifies you, notice: on Abraham’s map, anger is upward movement from grief. Blame is upward movement from fear.

This is why every teaching that tells a grieving person to “choose joy” fails. The gap is too wide. The scale says: go next-door. Then next-door. Then next-door.

Why It Works Mechanically

Each rung has a vibrational flavor. The Law of Attraction matches flavor, not grammar. You cannot match joy while standing in grief, no matter how convincingly you affirm. But you can match frustration from overwhelm. And frustration, once stabilized, can climb to discouragement, which can climb to doubt, which can climb to hope.

Each climb takes minutes to hours, not days. A full trip from despair to hope usually takes a weekend. A full trip from hope to joy, about a week.

Finding Your Current Rung (Honestly)

The honest question is not “how do I want to feel” - it is “what thought feels like relief from where I am now?” Relief is the compass. If the thought you’re reaching for produces relief in your body, it’s the right next rung. If it produces tension or guilt, it’s too high.

Worked Example: From Disappointment to Optimism

Let’s say a job offer fell through. Current rung: disappointment (rung 12).

  • Rung 11 - Overwhelm: “This job hunt is a lot.” (True. Relief.)
  • Rung 10 - Frustration: “I’m actually mad this didn’t work out. I wanted it.” (Specific. More alive.)
  • Rung 9 - Pessimism: “Maybe this isn’t going to happen fast. Fine.” (Acceptance.)
  • Rung 8 - Boredom: “Honestly this whole cycle is tedious.” (Less emotional charge.)
  • Rung 7 - Contentment: “I still have rent covered this month.” (True.)
  • Rung 6 - Hope: “This not working out probably means something else is coming.” (Reach, but believable.)
  • Rung 5 - Optimism: “My best offers have always come unexpectedly.” (Evidence-based.)

From rung 12 to rung 5, in one sitting, is ordinary. From rung 12 to rung 1 (“I am overflowing with joy about this rejection”) is a lie your body will catch.

What The Low Rungs Are For

Abraham is emphatic: there are no “bad” rungs. Anger is not a mistake; it is locomotion from places where joy wasn’t accessible. Judging your own feelings adds a new layer of low-rung emotion on top of the original one. The scale is a tool, not a verdict.

How to Use It Daily

  1. 1
    Every morning: ask, “What rung am I on?” Be specific. No self-kindness theater.
  2. 2
    Identify the next rung up. Write one sentence from that rung that you actually believe.
  3. 3
    Hold that sentence for 17 seconds (the atomic unit, from the previous post).
  4. 4
    Repeat until the next rung feels flat, then climb again.

The Surprise

People using the scale daily report that their set point - the rung they default to - climbs over weeks. This is the whole game. You are not trying to peak at joy once. You are trying to live a rung higher than you did last month.

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Written by
Piyush Mahajan
Founder of Vibo. Writing weekly about attention, alignment, and building calm technology.
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